Features and memberships

Every feature on Gangbangs Dating exists to help adults find compatible people and agree a plan before anyone meets. Some tools help you search; others help you stay private or stay safe. This page walks through them and lists membership prices in US dollars exactly as they appear when you check out.

Profiles that show limits as well as interests

Most dating profiles describe only what someone wants. Ours give equal space to what someone does not want. You can describe your role, whether you are a single woman, a couple, a single man or a host, along with your experience level, the size of group you are comfortable with, safer-sex expectations and the activities you will not consider. People who read your profile before writing to you will know where the edges are.

Good profiles are specific without being explicit. "Couple in our forties, she would like to meet two or three relaxed, considerate men, public meeting first, barriers always" tells a reader far more than a long list of fantasies. Our guide on writing a gangbang dating profile shows how.

Search by role and location

Search lets you filter by the kind of person you want to meet and where they are. A single woman might look only for men within an hour's travel who have described themselves as experienced and patient. A couple travelling to another city can search that city before they arrive. Organisers can look for new participants with the standards their group expects.

Location matters more for group meetings than for ordinary dates, because several people must reach the same place at the same time and get home again. Our location guides explain how this plays out in particular countries and cities.

Private messaging

Conversations start one to one. That protects everybody: the person at the centre can talk to each potential participant individually, ask the same questions of each, and compare answers without anyone performing for an audience. Group chats can follow once the people involved have been chosen, and our article on organising a group chat before meeting explains how to run one well.

Photo controls

You decide which photos are visible on your profile and which are shared only with people you choose. Many people keep their main photo discreet and share clearer images once they have spoken to someone and feel comfortable. Never share images that show your home, your car registration or anything else that identifies you until you trust the other person.

Blocking and reporting

Every profile and every conversation has block and report options. Blocking is immediate and the other person is not told why. Reports go to our team, who review them and act on profiles that break the rules. Common reasons to report include requests for money, refusal to accept a no, fake photos, and anyone who seems to be under 18.

Guides and location pages

Membership also gives you full use of the guidance on the site, which anyone can read. The articles library covers every stage from first message to aftercare, and the safety guide brings the most important practices together in one place.

What VIP and VIP Plus add

Creating a profile lets you set up your details, browse and get a feel for the site. A VIP or VIP Plus membership opens every messaging and profile tool so you can hold real conversations and move towards a plan. VIP Plus adds the highest level of access the site offers.

Membership prices (US dollars)

These are the prices shown at checkout for customers paying in US dollars. Plans renew at the same price unless you cancel, except the 12 month plans, which do not renew automatically.

Prices in other currencies appear at checkout for customers in those regions. You can manage or cancel a renewing plan from your account settings at any time, and access continues until the end of the period you have paid for.

Choosing a plan

A useful test is to count backwards from the meeting you have in mind. If you expect to spend a few weeks messaging, then a week or two arranging public introductions, a one week plan will run out long before you are ready. Equally, there is no reason to commit to a year if you are still deciding whether group encounters suit you at all.

Short plans suit people who want to test whether there is a good match near them before committing. Longer plans suit people who know that arranging a group meeting carefully takes weeks of conversation, verification and public introductions. There is no right answer. Think about how much time you realistically have to talk to people, and choose accordingly.

Features that matter most for safety

If you remember only three tools, make them these: the limits section of your profile, which tells people what will not happen; private one to one messaging, which lets you vet each person on their own; and the report button, which keeps the site safer for the next person. Combine them with a live camera check and a public first meeting, as explained in the safety guide.

Notifications and discretion

Email and in-site notifications tell you when someone has written to you, so you do not need to keep checking. You can switch email notifications off if you share a device or inbox. Subject lines are kept plain. If discretion at home matters to you, use a separate email address for your account and log out on shared computers.

Travelling and visiting

If you travel for work or plan a trip, search the destination before you arrive and say on your profile when you will be there. Hotels and short stays raise their own questions about guests and privacy, which our guide to hosting and hotel logistics answers. Give local people enough notice to arrange a public introduction first, and never let a tight travel window persuade you to skip verification.

Tools we deliberately leave out

Some features common on other adult sites do not appear here because they work against careful planning. There is no public feed of explicit images, because that attracts people collecting pictures rather than planning meetings. There is no tipping or gifting, because money changing hands between members causes pressure and fraud. And there is no automatic group invitation, because nobody should be added to a conversation about a meeting without the central person choosing them first.