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Where you live shapes almost every practical part of a group encounter. Distances decide who can realistically attend, public transport decides how late a meeting can run, local hotel rules decide whether a booked room is an option, and the way sexual health services are organised decides how simple testing will be. Customs differ too: in some places people expect plain, direct talk from the first message, while elsewhere a slower, more courteous approach goes down better.

The location guides gathered below add that regional detail to the general advice in our topic guides. Each country guide gives a national picture, and each city guide zooms in on neighbourhoods, night transport, accommodation and clinics. Whichever guide you open, the same principles apply everywhere: meet in public first, agree limits in writing, test and share results, and follow the steps on our safety page.

Country guides

National guides are the place to start if you live outside a major city, travel often, or want a broad sense of how things work before narrowing your search.

United States

A vast country where driving times, state laws and regional manners vary enormously. The US guide covers planning around long distances, choosing hotels sensibly, finding clinics and keeping things discreet in smaller towns.

United Kingdom

Rail timetables and last trains shape many British plans. Read about hotel etiquette, licensed venues, NHS sexual health clinics and the reserved but friendly tone that tends to work well across England, Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland.

Canada

Huge distances, serious winters and bilingual regions mean Canadians plan with care. This guide looks at provincial health services, weather contingencies and the courtesy that Canadian contacts generally appreciate.

Australia

State-by-state differences, summer heat and long gaps between capitals all affect Australian plans. Learn how people coordinate across big cities, which sexual health services to look for and how to stay comfortable in hot weather.

Germany

A federal country with many strong regional cities and a long tradition of adult clubs. The German guide explains privacy expectations, local health office testing and why clear written agreements fit the national style.

Netherlands

Compact, well connected and famously direct. Dutch contacts often say exactly what they want, trains and bikes make short trips simple, and regional health services offer accessible testing across the Randstad and beyond.

Ireland

A small, closely connected society where discretion matters a great deal. The Irish guide covers travel between Dublin and the regional cities, public health clinics and ways to protect your privacy in tight-knit communities.

New Zealand

With a modest population spread over two islands, people often know someone who knows you. Read about planning across Auckland, Wellington and Christchurch, inter-island trips and keeping a low profile.

South Africa

Personal security, safe transport home and backup plans for power cuts come first here. The guide covers Gauteng, Cape Town and Durban, public clinics and the extra precautions that experienced locals recommend.

City guides

Our city guides go deeper into the places where most planning happens. Each one looks at neighbourhoods, late-night transport, accommodation rules and nearby clinics, with links back to the relevant national guide.

London

Choosing the right borough can save hours of travel. The London guide covers the Night Tube and night buses, hotels close to major stations, NHS clinics and the etiquette Londoners expect.

Manchester

Greater Manchester is spread out but well served by Metrolink and rail. Discover central hotels, the lively Village around Canal Street, local clinics and the warm, straightforward northern manner.

Dublin

Northside or Southside, DART or Luas, the Irish capital has its own logic. This guide explains city hotels, late buses, public health clinics and the balance between friendliness and discretion.

Berlin

A city of distinct neighbourhoods, round-the-clock transport at weekends and a famous club scene with strict door policies. Read about Altbau flats, hotels and testing through the local health offices.

Amsterdam

Canals, trams, bikes and night buses make the Dutch capital easy to cross. The guide covers neighbourhoods from De Pijp to Noord, short-stay rental rules and regional health clinics.

New York City

Five boroughs, a subway that never closes and apartments that are rarely spacious. The New York guide looks at hotel policies, borough choice, city health clinics and local manners.

Los Angeles

Almost everyone drives, so traffic and parking shape every plan. Explore neighbourhoods from Downtown to the Westside, hotel options across the region and where to find testing.

Las Vegas

Locals and visitors behave very differently here. This guide covers Strip and off-Strip hotels, desert heat, county rules in general terms and how to keep plans grounded amid the noise.

Chicago

From the North Side to the South Side, the L and Metra connect a big, friendly city. Read about Loop and River North hotels, harsh winters, local clinics and Midwestern courtesy.

Toronto

The TTC and GO Transit link the city with the wider GTA. The Toronto guide covers downtown hotels, condo guest rules, Church-Wellesley, winter planning and nearby sexual health services.

Sydney

Harbour, beaches, inner suburbs and the sprawling west each feel distinct. Learn about trains, ferries and late services, hotels, summer heat and where to get tested.

Melbourne

Trams, weekend late services and famously changeable weather define Melbourne plans. This guide explores the inner north, the south side, CBD hotels and the clinics locals use.

Using a location guide well

A location guide is most useful when you combine it with the topic guides in our guides collection. Start with the national guide for the broad picture, move on to the nearest city guide for neighbourhood detail, then read the topic guides that match your next step, whether that is writing a profile, choosing a venue or arranging tests.

If your town is not covered by a city guide, the national guide still applies. Many of the points made about transport, accommodation and discretion translate well to smaller places, and the general advice about meeting in public, sharing limits and arranging testing is the same wherever you are.

Travelling to meet someone deserves a little extra planning. Check how you will get home before you set off, let someone you trust know your destination, and keep enough battery on your phone to call a taxi. If you are visiting another country, take a moment to read that national guide too, because customs and expectations can shift more than you might assume.